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[rdsmith3]

I totally agree with km -- I have a great deal of empathy for that baby, who is not off to a very good start in life. Unfortunately there are no easy answers here. A natural consequence of your daughter's irresponsible behavior would be losing custody, but that does not mean the baby will end up in a better place.

[ladyt]

She has said nothing about them being in the house. She even says that it was not the guy's fault that her 15 yr old friend got drunk because it was her choice to drink and smoke pot.

My dau was sexually abused by clergy and someone else close to her. However the unknown preson has not been revealed. In her poem she states that "You both know what you did was wrong but your secret will go with me to the grave." I have my suspicions but they don't count. Only if she speaks out.

She is beautiful but she does not see herself that way. She has been in counseling for 2 years but she is in denial and does not thiink she needs help. Until she realizes she does, the counselors are just a sounding board to her.

She had 2 STD's when she got pregnant. Took almost 4 months for them to be able to treat her successfully. I think she has one now and I have asked her to go to doctor. She said no.

[ladyt]

Thank you all for your prayers. I know God hears them all. If it were not for God beng on my side I'd be locked up somewhere.