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[schapman1]

After seperateing in December and no communication with my wife, she finally opened up and began communicating through email, instant Mesenger, and via phone. It really looked like we were on the right track and i felt with prayer we could go to counseling and work out our problems for our sakes and teh sake of our two little boys. However bgining towards mid june communication seemed to slow by mid july it just stopped. i would call and she would hang up. i finally got her o talk with me and she was Cold, blunt, and just plain mean.
She announced "We're not together anymore" i told her but we are stil married to which she snapped "Just until the Divorce is final, I told her i didn't wanta divorce that i wanted to work through our problems an dgo to counseling. she would have no part of it then i emailed her and tried again to convince her to go to counselin to just give us a chance...she finally said in an email
"I'm not going to dicuss this, It's over.."

it floored me like someone had punched me in the gut..i then found out she has a boyfriend..another punch in the gut.

pleasepray for me to have the strength to go on and forgive..(That's hard the hurt is still extremea nd fresh)
pray for our children

and pray for my wife . she needs genuine salvation, a touch from God and a softened and tenderized heart.

may she flee this rebound relationship like there's no tomorrow.

please pray..the hurt and tears has been present the last three days.

thank you.

[ILuvJesus973]

I know how hard it is to separate... esp when you don't want it.
I have been there 5 times with my husband.
I pray it doesn't happen again.
He says he's back to stay.
I will pray for you. I hear your pain... there's nothing like it.
ESP when you love them so.
HUGS TO YOU...

[resecured]

schapman1,

Am praying for you and your family. Especially for the amazing strength and peace that God gives.

-RJ-