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[hope30]

My husband has a horrible lying problem, I have known for years now but this last year essecially is spiralling down. I do not know what to do. It isn't just that I have no trust in any way for him anymore,I feel like I am living afraid of what next serious thing he is going to lie about. I do not even know who he is. But whats creating even more stress is that one of the big things he lies about is money from spending it all to lying about how much he is getting from our * and now as a result he has ruined his credit score, now mine and we do not have any money to even pay are car * or mortgage, I am faced with losing everything. I am so hurt and angry and scared. And its not just my husband or me but our three children that are so much suffering. Please pray for us. We really need help and I just wish I had someone to talk to,as I raelly have no friends. Besides God who I have been praying with chronically. Thanks for listening any advice. hope30

[km]

Some sort of financial intervention to get him away from handling the money sounds necessary (and whatever counseling and/or mental health assistance as to why he is that way).

[hope30]

We have tried to keep him off the financial areas but. It is much harder than it looks. we have a bus. which makes it hard but mostly because it is like living with a thief if I do not hide any cards or cash he takes it.

[SAM]

There are many organizations out there that can assist you. It may take several phone calls to local non-profits or county agencies.

I walked through financial infidelity with my husband. The only thing that worked for us was counseling with a Christian counselor. The counselor worked with us financially on what insurance would not cover.