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[ladyt]

If it weren’t for God on my side and my faith that He is in control of all things, I'd be insane by now.

The baby's paternal grandparents are willing to take custody of her baby should she have to go to a facility. The father wants to be involved but my dau and her dad filed a 6 month injunction against him b/c while in the hospital my dau did not want him to hold baby and he took baby to feed him and she started hitting him in the back and he tried to restrain her and she called security and a report was file, Child Services got involved and OMG same scenario.

She will be 18 on Oct 9th and will begin receiving a monthly check so she will be self sufficient. If I have to pay it will only be for 1 or 2 months.

[resecured]

I could see the benefit of it then, for your sake. It seems that once he gets custody and when she turns 18 that you might not have to endure as much in the way of having to deal with your ex. Maybe then you can start to relax and not be in so much turmoil.

Your right, with God in control, He does keep insanity at bay. Even in the midst of some of the craziest shannigans that continues to go on around us.

-RJ-

[ladyt]

Yes, getting my ex out of my daily life will be a blessing. I have tried so hard to be cordial and keeping him informed of the happenings with our dau. They both are so secretive and it can be frustrating as they both think things are none of my business.

I did ask him to take her car shopping so she can determine what type of car she will get when the time comes but he has not done so b/c I asked. He says he will not allow me to dictate to him. I can't deal with them much more. This must end at some point.