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[dwk]

I guess it would be correct..... at this time, she is not someone I wish to "pursue"..... she has drifted so far from God and from the person she was a few years ago, that I believe she should be left to Gods disciplines, not my persuasion or pursuit. For quite a while she has not been receptive to any Godly influences or corrections. "And God gave them over to their sinful desires...." She needs to be broken first, like the prodigal son..... thats where I was (and am now) and I PRAISE GOD for it! Even though I did not do anything like she is doing, I was not fully committed to Him for a little while, my focus was on her and trying to figure out what was going on with her. I have now seen what happens when we "disconnect" from our Saviour and buy into worldly philosophies..... its sad. The "i deserve to be happy" mentality..... Its all about SELF! Jesus said "If anyone would come after me he must DENY HIMSELF..." Right now, she is all about self, and needs to give her life back to Jesus.

[dwk]

AN AMAZING ANSWER TO PRAYER! Yesterday morning my wife texted me.... it said, "i really do miss you".... I was shocked, but praised God for it! All I sent her back was, "I miss you too!" Hoping more will come from this, but leaving the ball in her court....

[SAM]

That is an amazing first step. We'll pray for more.

[FaithHopeJoy]

That's good news, dwk! We'll all keep praying. Maybe your wife has to experience a time of separation to realize what she would be missing if she left permanently.

Keep us posted

[resecured]

It's wise that you are taking the "nice but heedful" approach. Apparently she is learning alot about herself these days. Hang in there! You have many people praying for you, your wife, and your marriage.

-RJ-