Completely lost...

Questions and help related to conflict resolution.Articles about Conflict Click Here

Re: Completely lost...

Postby dwk » Sun Oct 25, 2009 10:09 pm

I guess it would be correct..... at this time, she is not someone I wish to "pursue"..... she has drifted so far from God and from the person she was a few years ago, that I believe she should be left to Gods disciplines, not my persuasion or pursuit. For quite a while she has not been receptive to any Godly influences or corrections. "And God gave them over to their sinful desires...." She needs to be broken first, like the prodigal son..... thats where I was (and am now) and I PRAISE GOD for it! Even though I did not do anything like she is doing, I was not fully committed to Him for a little while, my focus was on her and trying to figure out what was going on with her. I have now seen what happens when we "disconnect" from our Saviour and buy into worldly philosophies..... its sad. The "i deserve to be happy" mentality..... Its all about SELF! Jesus said "If anyone would come after me he must DENY HIMSELF..." Right now, she is all about self, and needs to give her life back to Jesus.
Live for the line, not the dot!
dwk
Full Member
Full Member
 
Posts: 62
Joined: Thu May 14, 2009 12:29 pm
Location: California

{ ADVERTISEMENT }

Re: Completely lost...

Postby dwk » Sun Nov 08, 2009 11:44 am

AN AMAZING ANSWER TO PRAYER! Yesterday morning my wife texted me.... it said, "i really do miss you".... I was shocked, but praised God for it! All I sent her back was, "I miss you too!" Hoping more will come from this, but leaving the ball in her court....
Live for the line, not the dot!
dwk
Full Member
Full Member
 
Posts: 62
Joined: Thu May 14, 2009 12:29 pm
Location: California

Re: Completely lost...

Postby SAM » Sun Nov 08, 2009 3:41 pm

That is an amazing first step. We'll pray for more.
User avatar
SAM
Veteran
Veteran
 
Posts: 2784
Joined: Sat Mar 03, 2001 1:27 pm
Location: Chicago

Re: Completely lost...

Postby FaithHopeJoy » Sun Nov 08, 2009 4:48 pm

That's good news, dwk! We'll all keep praying. Maybe your wife has to experience a time of separation to realize what she would be missing if she left permanently.

Keep us posted :o
FaithHopeJoy
Full Member
Full Member
 
Posts: 184
Joined: Mon Jun 25, 2007 4:30 am

Re: Completely lost...

Postby resecured » Sun Nov 08, 2009 7:50 pm

It's wise that you are taking the "nice but heedful" approach. Apparently she is learning alot about herself these days. Hang in there! You have many people praying for you, your wife, and your marriage.

-RJ-
resecured
Veteran
Veteran
 
Posts: 401
Joined: Fri Apr 25, 2008 9:16 am

Previous

Return to Resolving Conflict

Who is online

Users browsing this forum: No registered users and 0 guests