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[pughjas]

My wife left 2 months ago. she said she did not love me and was done. Some of the reasons she left look to be my fault now. I was never abusive or mean to her but just didnt pay enough attention to her. Want to change this. She now wants to come home. She has lost the kids and our divorce will be final on wed. I think I need to go through with it to protect the kids. The only problems is that I love her and want her back. I believe her when she says she will not do it again,but want to be cautious. She has gone to counseling this week and been put on anti-depressants. Any advice?????

Confused and in love

[km]

Tell her you will do joint Marital Counseling for (say) 6 months, and address her moving back in at the end of that time. And in MC, set a number of groundrules for you both to observe, and things for you each and both to work on.